Monthly Archives: August 2015

I arrived at Bodega Ridge on Friday afternoon to Pat lugging logs of wood to around on the top of ridge. It was a few hours before the rehearsal/welcome dinner, and the groomsmen were making an alter from scratch. I was sweating just watching them, and I’m sure my arrival was as good of an excuse as any […]

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NOT ANYONE WHO SAYS

Not anyone who says, “I’m going to be
careful and smart in matters of love,”
who says, “I’m going to choose slowly,”
but only those lovers who didn’t choose at all
but were, as it were, chosen
by something invisible and powerful and uncontrollable
and beautiful and possibly even
unsuitable —
only those know what I’m talking about
in this talking about love.
-Mary Oliver

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